Nursery Inspiration

I am in my second trimester now and feeling great.  The nesting bug has set in and I am in full swing getting stuff done.  I love it… my husband hates it!  We started a huge backyard overhaul that has required all of his energy and attention.  While we were waiting for that to begin I had him install some new floors and I made some changes to the living room (more on that in a few weeks).

Now he is focused on the backyard but I have lots of other projects lined up for when he finishes…. I hope he doesn’t see this post!  It might give him anxiety.

The biggest projects are:

1) New flooring in the office and re-organizing for two work stations, including a desk and wall decor.  I have already moved my office out so we can get started.  I know he already feels the pressure.

2) Building a kitchen bench to go with our new table, it comes this week! (more pressure)

3) Baby’s nursery!!  I sold all the furniture that was in the room and I am having a yard sale to raise nursery decorating money this weekend.  (he might be a little more stressed!!)

All are equally important and will be prioritized by how long it takes the yard to be done and how much time is available.  See I am being flexible :)

This post however is all about #3, Nursery Inspiration!  If you haven’t figured it out yet, I am pregnant :) and if you missed it we are having a boy!  He is coming this August so I am really feeling the time crunch.  Maybe others are too, but its probably mostly me.

I have brainstormed and know I want his room to be red, white and blue, not patriotic red, white and blue, but Boston Red Sox red, white and blue.  Don’t get me wrong, we love America.  But Jon grew up in a baseball family and somehow got me to enjoy the sport.  We have been fans of Boston for most of our relationship so of course our kids will be to.  Side note:  we took Eleanor home in a Red Sox onsie and we will take Anderson home in the same one.  We wore our Red Sox gear home as well and we have a Red Sox dress for Eleanor this time.  I am pretty excited, if you haven’t noticed.

Back to the room.  I originally wanted to do a huge baseball wall like this.

Jon wants to keep things simple, what if baby doesn’t like baseball?  I think this is highly unlikely, were a baseball family, as I have explained above.  But I value his comments so I have scaled back the baseball, and it will be just decorative things.

I saw this idea and fell in love!


I have always loves wainscoting, and it will eventually be in the bathroom… another project!  I haven’t fully decided if I will use bead board and a chair rail or a flat panel more like the photo.  I also haven’t decided to paint the top half blue or leave it the current color.  Blue is very bold, but also attractive so I have more thinking to do.  I still need to find a dresser so that may play a huge factor in how the walls shape up.  I love the red dresser shown and it would be easy to add numbers or 1st, 2nd, 3rd, home.

I still want some sort of large baseball in the room so these are an option:

I think the first two baseballs are cute, and we can always make it a wall hanging or order it in vinyl so it is removable if for some reason Anderson hates baseball.  The little baseball lines in the last photo are pretty adorable!!  They might be a little more subtle than the huge wall so Jon may give in a little.

A few decor pieces I am in love with:

The mobile is probably a must… intact I may scour Etsy and add it to my registry.  And the spheres look easy to make myself or commission from a talented friend.  The display wall would look great with the wood paneling below… So many options I am getting pretty excited.

Let me know in the comments below what you love!!  Not hate because I might be a little sad if I end up using it.  Also if you have any wonderful ideas let me know!

All photos from pinterest 

CSUF Class of 2015

You may have noticed we haven’t had to much activity on the blog for a while; I have been crazy busy trying to finish school and I am proud to say I DID IT!  This past weekend I walked across the stage at California State University, Fullerton with 10,000 other students to accept my degree.  (Well certificate until the real thing comes in the mail)  I am really excited to finish my undergrad career, look forward to graduate school,and become the proud owner of a bachelor’s degree that I worked so hard for.

I started college at a local community college to get my general education classes out of the way for a cheaper price.  After 2 1/2 years I transferred to CSUF as a kinesiology student.  I quickly found university life was different than the community college I was used to and I struggled to be able to register for classes because there was so many other students. Not being able to get the classes I needed or wanted left me feeling discouraged and I was not motivated to further my education so I only attended school part time.  I worked 2 jobs to pay my bills and afford gas money to commute to school, leaving me very busy and less time to study. Because I was only taking classes part time, it took me longer than I had plan to finish; 4 very long years!

It would to be nice to think I did this all on my own but the truth is I wouldn’t even come close to graduating if it wasn’t for my husband.  He convinced me to quit my jobs a year ago and focus on school full time so I could finally finish. As a result, I made my last year at CSUF my best, attending school full time and giving it all my attention and free time.  Because of his working extra hours, I was able to study more.  His support and confidence kept me going with the motivation I could make our lives better some day.  So I would like to say a big thank you to him for his love and support!  (And my parents too!)

Also, I would like to say a big huge thank you to my talented sister for talking my graduation photos!

Pitch Perfect 2

Last Friday Pitch Perfect 2 came out and Jackie and I couldn’t be more excited!  Over the weekend we had a few Pitch Perfect Events.  On Friday I had a bunch of girlfriends over for a Pitch Perfect viewing.  We ate burritos so we could feel like we were in the flying Mexican food scene.


We also had a few sweets, because whats a girl get-together without sweets.  Saturday we all went to the theaters together to watch Pitch Perfect 2!  It was pretty fun being in a larger group.  We went to an early showing so the theater wasn’t crowded, that is always the best.

I wont spoil too much but the movie was pretty fun! Lots of new songs to sing along to and of course some old favorites.  There were a few new characters and all our old favorite ones.  Even a cameo by the Penatonix (love them!).  If you haven’t seen it yet get out there and go watch it!  Take a girlfriend and don’t be afraid to sing along.


Date Night Ideas for Under $40: 1

Hi everyone, it’s been almost a month since we started our Date Night series and I am here to do an update.  To give you some recap, our dating series is about Date Night Ideas for under $40 to spend some quality time with your spouse or significant other to keep your relationship strong.

This past month my husband Trey and I went on 3 dates.  I felt like it was a little harder to plan an activity together because I wanted to do something I could write about for this series and something worth summarizing. Through this dating series, I have learned something in each date which I am excited to share with you below


Our first date of the month was more of an outing than an actual date; we went on a nice hike on a Saturday afternoon with another couple.  We both had a great time and enjoyed getting out in the sun while getting some exercise in.  I spent most of my time walking and catching up with my friend Jalessa while Trey did the same with Josh, but we enjoyed time together as well.  On double dates, it’s nice to see your spouse in a social setting and not just at home.  For me, it makes me remember why I liked him so much in the first place; he is great with people he is comfortable with! Plus we both get to spend time with friends and with each other.  Also, getting out to see something new and doing a physical activity together was fun and a nice to change to our normal routine.

Farmer’s Market

Our second date was to our local farmer’s market which happens every Thursday evening in the spring and summer.  Personally I enjoy farmers markets and love to walk around and look at all the booths.  Trey likes the food but isn’t too interested in our local farmers market because it is always small and kind of a dud, but he still goes with me anyway to make me happy.  Relationships are about compromise after all! On this date we decided to get dessert when we saw a dairy free ice cream stand – it was the BEST ice cream either of us has ever had!  I wish I could remember the name of the company because I loved it so much, I’ll have to go back and find them again. The ice cream really made the trip to the farmer’s market worth it and kind of saved the date for Trey who wasn’t too impressed. We only stayed for an hour or less, but it was wonderful to be able to get some one-on-one time in with my husband and chat about or week.   We both get so busy during the week so just having some time set aside for one another was perfect and showed me that a date doesn’t have to be long to be enjoyable. (And if you eat something yummy it’s much better)


Our third date was Upland’s annual Lemon Festival which is a like a small fair with food, booths, bands, and rides that happens once a year in our town.  It is only 3 days long, and we had planned on  going the first day but our schedules made it impossible.  We ended up going up going Sunday afternoon for lunch and it was wonderful.  I had a spiral potato which is the most impressive fair food I have ever enjoyed, and Trey had a great meal as well.  The Lemon Festival was much livelier than the usual farmer’s market and Trey and I had a good time walking around, but to him it wasn’t anything special.  I think I have found out this isn’t the type of date he really enjoys.

That’s it for this month.  Our plan for next month is to try indoor rock climbing which Trey has been wanting to do.  I’m a little nervous but excited to try something he came up with!  I’ll let you know how it goes.  If you have any other date ideas or have tried anything on our list, let us know in the comments below, we would love to hear from you!

Toddler Life : 2

It’s time for some Toddler Life.  Eleanor is growing so quickly and adding new quirks to her personality every day.

What’s up- Eleanor has said “what’s that” for ever!! It was her first words after Daddad and Mommom.  But now she has started saying “what’s up”, and it sounds a bit slurry but oh so cute. I don’t think she gets the meaning yet because she uses it a lot like “what’s that”, it is adorable all the same.


Last Sunday at church she was being her usual shy self towards other people.  Friends love to come up to her and say hi, but she gets a little overwhelmed.  We tried showing her how to blow kisses or kiss her hand and wave but she reacted slowly.  She must have been practicing because the next day she started saying “Muah” and blowing kisses at everything.  She has been very generous with kisses and hugs the past few weeks but the added “Muah” is heart melting.  Mom, dad, grandparents, pets, book characters and stuffed animals are all enjoying the love.


Jon and I went to a last-minute diner for dinner the other night en-route to another event.  Jon had been very busy the last few days working on a house project so we hadn’t had much face time.  We were chatting and didn’t notice someone grabbed the salt and tried to eat it… who was that?…  If you guessed Eleanor you are right!  She ended up with a pile of salt in her mouth and was not a happy baby! Haha. She had a very sour face, and almost looked helpless.  She wouldn’t drink her water but we gave her a swig of soda (that we had refused to share moments before) and washed it down. My straw tasted like the ocean after so you know her mouth was miserable.  Poor baby, maybe she will leave the salt alone next time.

Is your toddler doing anything new lately?  We would love to hear about it :)

Shopping Tips for the Perfect Jeans

My favorite thing in my wardrobe is my jeans; I would live in them every day if I could.   Even though summer is coming up and the weather is warming, I still love jeans over anything else.  That being said, I have the hardest time finding jeans that fit me perfectly and I often have to try on hundreds of pairs before I find “the one”.  (And when I do I wear that pair until they fall apart!)

Over the years I have found what types of jeans work for me and what types don’t and I tend to flock to stores that carry my favorite cuts. To be honest, I still buy juniors jeans, but I am looking to update my wardrobe to more “adult” clothing that will last longer, so my shopping quest has begun again.  Here are a few tips of advice I have found work best when shopping for new jeans:

#1 – Don’t shop when you are overly full or bloated

You will hate everything you try on or even the act of having to change your pants!  And if you are bloated nothing will fit as comfortably as you would like it to.

#2 – Don’t shop alone

Bring a shopping buddy whose opinion you trust for you to model your potential new jeans in front of.  If you are anything like me, picking outfits is hard and a second opinion is always helpful to convince you if you look good or bad in a pair of jeans.

#3 – Check out the back

This may just be a personal rule, but if jeans don’t make my butt look good, I don’t wear them.  Jeans come in all different cuts, pockets or no pockets, or designs on the pockets, all to bring attention to your butt – so it better make it look good!

#4 – Know your size, or get measured, and your style

Again, jeans come in all different cuts and styles and not all styles look good on every person.  Women all have different proportions and it helps to know your correct size and measurements when shopping so you get something that is flattering for your body type.   If you don’t know your body size, get measured.

#5 – Learn to sew or find a good tailor

Being on the shorter side, I always have the problem of finding pants that fit me perfectly, but the legs are too long. A simple hem can go a long way, so if you don’t know how to sew, find (or pay) someone who does.  Your jeans will look better and last longer.

#6 – In most cases, you get what you pay for

I am the first to admit I am cheap with everything!  I can’t resist jeans that are under $10, but they often do not last long.  When you are making a purchase it is important to look at the quality of the work and the company that makes it as well as the price.  $10 jeans can be a great buy, but if they don’t last longer than a few months it’s a waste.  So don’t worry about spending more on good jeans that will last.

#7 – Feel free to try on the whole store – even if it’s online!

Plan on trying on many pairs before you find one to purchase. Unless you are very lucky, not every pair you try on will be the perfect fit, and that is okay!  Think of it as an investment in yourself and don’t settle for something you are not totally happy with.

If you’re shopping online, order a few different styles and understand going into the order that some of them may have to be returned. Many online retailers make returns super easy, and in some cases, free! offers free shipping and free returns every day on everything, and includes a pre-paid return label with your order to take the hassle out of having to print one up. That makes finding the perfect jeans about as easy as possible!

With these tips I have found that I prefer dark wash, low rise, skinny jeans.   I typically buy 3 pairs at the same time and I wear them year round until they fall apart.  Of course, I do buy jeans in different cuts and washes so I can mix and match them with different outfits and for different occasions.   Slimming jeans are amazing and can make you look good no matter how you feel.  For a great example of some wonderful jeans, check out the original slimming fit brand NYDJ and their slimming jeans.

As well as some great jeans, NYDJ also has some modern and comfy jean leggings, or jeggings – a fresh take on an old classic!  They also have a great selection of trouser jeans, which are great for work, slightly dressy occasions, casual business events, or just to break up your traditional look.

The Great Cloth Diaper Change 2015

smlogoIts time again for the Great Cloth Diaper Change.  Eleanor and I participated for the second time this year!  Last year we went to Long Beach with Aunt Jackie.  This year we diaper changed at Kissui In Redlands, CA and daddy came along.  Kissui is a cute little shop with a lot to offer.  They carry a variety of brands such as, BumGenius, Tula, Skip Hop, Ollie Jones and more.


Last year the diaper change broke a Guinness World Record with 8,459 babies changed into re-usable cloth diapers across 18 countries on 26 April 2014.  This year the change was not affiliated with Guinness due to new regulations that required video (most were uncomfortable with this due to the nature of the event).  So we tried to break last years record for fun.  Our location had 65 babies changed into 100% Re-usable cloth diapers.  We will get the total numbers soon once they are posted.

The change started at 11am so all the mommies & daddies and babies lined up in designated areas on the floor.  We peeped with changing mats or blankets.  We all held up the fresh diapers we planned on using and snapped a photo.  Then we all held up our babies and in their dirty diapers and snapped another photo.  Once it was 11am exactly they rang a bell and we all started changing. Once everyone was done we held up our babies in their fresh diapers and we were done!

In the group photo above you can see Jon, Eleanor and I walking in, we arrived pretty close to start so Eleanor wouldn’t get too overwhelmed with all the people.  Of course she still did but we distracted her with snacks and things to do.  As you can see in the before shot she looks a little grumpy.  I changed her into the same diaper we used last year, I am a little nostalgic!

It was a great event and it was very organized.  I was pretty impressed.  Eleanor will most likely be potty trained by next years change but Little Anderson will be participating with me again :)  Can’t wait!




tarte Cosmetics Review

When I shop for makeup I look for a few things; price, quality, easy to use, availability (online shopping or a store where I can try it on first) and how the makeup is made or if it tested on animals.  I try to only buy cruelty free makeup and the only real exceptions I have is samples I receive in my Ipsy subscription where I cannot control what goes inside.  Being vegan, cruelty free is an important quality to me and I always appreciate companies that take the extra step to not test on animals.

I don’t purchase makeup very often; I typically enjoy my Ipsy samples until they run out.   I love it because I get to try products and companies I probably wouldn’t have been exposed to.  (I’m not very makeup savvy) But when I do buy things, I tend to fall in love with one product and buy it over and over.

My all-time favorite makeup product and necessity every day is mascara.  Even if I am have a lazy day and don’t feel like putting on makeup, I will put on mascara before leaving the house.  I don’t know why, but I feel like with my lashed defined I look semi put together.  A few months ago I received Lights, Camera, Lashes  mascara from tarte cosmetics in my Ipsy bag as a sample and I LOVE it!


It’s long lasting and stands up all day, easy to apply with very few clumps, and doesn’t take many coats to make my lashes look long and beautiful.  I already have long lashes, but they are blonde and hard to see, so I love good mascara that makes them stand out without weighing them down or giving me a crazy clumpy look.  They also have a waterproof version that I plan on getting for summer so I can go swimming and still feel pretty in makeup.

Having never heard of this brand before receiving the mascara, I now have had many friends and family members tell me they use the same mascara and love it also.  I am super excited to check out some of their other products so here are my top 3 I plan to get:

tartelette amazonian clay matte palette


I’m a sucker for eyeshadow pallettes, and I love natural colors.  I also like the ability to wear a darker color if I want my eyes to pop more depending on my outfit and the occasion.

lights, camera, splashes waterproof mascara


Again waterproof is a necessity for summer.  Or just occasions where you might get a little teary-eyed.

maracuja C-brighter eye treatment


It’s never too early to start using an eye cream and with the hard sun and dry weather a hydrating cream is just what I need.  I’m really excited for this one.


Date Night Ideas for Under $40

I’ve only been married for a year and a half now, so I am by no means an expert on marriage or relationships.  However, mine is pretty great so I must be doing something right! (hopefully my husband agrees, ha ha) Along with communication, honesty, and all that important stuff I think having fun together is an important part of a strong, happy relationship. I know lots of people who are married, some divorced, and some people who are dating and I consistently see that busy schedules, kids, and everyday life often get in the way of the couple connecting and enjoying each other’s company.  Because of that I am a strong believer that you should never stop dating your spouse.


Dating your spouse reminds you why you fell in love with this person in the first place.  It is so easy to get caught up in the busyness of life that we often over look and take for granted the people who matter the most.  At least once a month, or more if you can,  go on a date with your significant other (spouse, fiancee, boyfriend/girlfriend, whatever) and get away from your normal routine.  Try new restaurants, or go to one kept just for you two, and don’t have your normal conversations about bills, schedules, etc.

I am fortunate enough to have a wonderful circle of friends and a church that strongly believes and invests in the marriages of those who attend.  Our church hosts date nights where they offer free child care, a short message, and give couples questions to discuss over dinner to get to know each other better.  On our last date night, they gave us a list of fun date ideas and it inspired me for our new blog series, dating!  Below I will provide the list of 35 date ideas under $40 and once a month I’ll give you updates on how my husband and I liked the dates and what we’ve learned along the way.  Hopefully it will inspire you to go out and try something new with your significant other and bring you closer together.

35 Dates for Under $40

  1. Go on a hike in the mountains and bring a picnic lunch.
  2. Attend a concert or movie in the park. (great for summer)
  3. Go to the beach. Walk along the beach or rent/bring your own bike for the board walk.  Enjoy dinner on the pier.
  4. Attend a minor league baseball or other sport game.
  5. Go to the movies.
  6. Wake up early in the morning and watch the sunrise together. (More fun in you eat breakfast in bed after)
  7. Go on a walk together.
  8. Fish in a local lake.
  9. Have dinner in your back yard.
  10. Go out for ice cream or frozen yogurt.
  11. Attend a local street fair or farmers market.
  12. Go bowling. (Make it more competitive with a bet that winner gets to pick the next date or does all the dishes for a week)
  13. Hang out by a fire pit or fire place.
  14. Go on a bike ride.
  15. Play in the snow – you don’t have to be a kid to enjoy this!
  16. Go to a local museum or make a list of 5 museums to go to.
  17. Make cookies together- and then eat them.
  18. Ride go-carts or bumper carts.
  19. Go to an observatory or planetarium.
  20. Play a board game.
  21. Give each other massages.
  22. Garden or do yard work together.
  23. Wine or beer tasting.
  24. Go apple, orange, strawberry, etc picking.
  25. Motorcycle or dirt bike riding.
  26. Go for a swim or soak in a spa.
  27. Visit a botanical garden.
  28. Cook together.
  29. Attend or host a murder mystery dinner with other couples.
  30. Find a hotel with Priceline or Travelocity for a one night getaway together.
  31. Attend a comedy show.
  32. Go to a drive in movie.
  33. Attend or host a game night with friends.
  34. Stargaze.
  35. Have an at home movie marathon. (Libraries are great places to rent DVDs)

I’m still a broke college student so we don’t plan on breaking the bank for date night. We put some money aside each month and save up for more expensive things like concerts, shows, or trips.  We also live in Southern California so we have many opportunities to do different things.  Depending on where you live you may need to get a little creative with ideas.   Here are some of our favorite dates we do often:

  1. Play softball in the park or go to the batting cages.  (My husband plays softball and I have been asking him to teach me how to bat.  I’m not very good, but it has been so much fun to learn and I think he enjoys teaching me)
  2. Go to the shooting range.
  3. Game night with friends.  (This is one of the most fun and it is very inexpensive!)
  4. Go to a pool hall.
  5. Teach each other your favorite hobby or skill.
  6. Snorkeling or scuba diving.  (My husband loves both of these activities and I don’t like swimming…I usually sun bathe while he swims but it is still fun)
  7. Go to a comedy club.
  8. Surprise the other with home made breakfast
  9. Go to a farmers market
  10. Upland’s Lemon Festival
  11. Orange picking.  (There is an orange grove by us that lets you pick as many as you want for $5. We go once a year and then make juice after)
  12. Pedicures (Okay, this one we haven’t actually done but I have been trying to get my husband to get a pedicure with me since we got married. Maybe one day we will!)
  13. Take a dancing class.  (We haven’t done this yet either but we always say we want to.)



Gender Prediction : Baby Berry #2

Baby Berry #2 is coming fast.  I am already half way through this pregnancy.  I have an ultrasound coming up this week and thought it would be fun to go through all the wives tales before we get the official word from the hospital.


Gender Prediction : Baby Berry #2

Old Wives Tale #1: Heart Rate
If the baby’s heart rate is above 140 bpm, it is said that the baby will be a girl. If it is under 140 bpm, then it will be a boy.

The last heart rate reading was 145 bpm Prediction outcome: Girl

Old Wives Tale #2: Shape of Belly
If you are carrying high with a big, round belly, you are having a girl. If you are carrying low with a smaller belly that sticks straight out, it’s a boy.

I am carrying very low this time and since Saturday I am sticking straight out.  I was higher and more round with Eleanor.   Prediction outcome: Boy

Old Wives Tale #3: Acne

If you have acne while pregnant, it’s a girl. It’s thought that acne during pregnancy is caused by the extra hormones.

I have acne now, maybe a little more than normal, and about the same as last pregnancy.  Prediction outcome: Girl

Old Wives Tale #4: Cravings
People believe that if you are craving salty foods while pregnant, you can count on having a boy. If you crave sweets, fruit, and orange juice, you are having a little girl.

My cravings are all over the place; hamburgers, bread and always sugar.  Same as last pregnancy.  Prediction outcome: Inconclusive

Old Wives Tale #5: Moodiness and a Little Pecker

If you are really moody, you are having a girl since you have another extra girl hormones in you. Your pregnancy will make you smile and be more happy if you are having a boy because there’s a little penis inside you.

I feel more moody, maybe because I am tired and I have a toddler.  I feel like I was happier last pregnancy that resulted in a little girl.  Maybe due to first pregnancy bliss. Prediction outcome: Girl

Old Wives Tale #6: Chinese Gender Chart
The Chinese Gender Chart claims to have an accuracy rate of over 90%. It is based on how old the mother is at conception and the month that she conceived.

I checked the Gender Chart when we first found out we were pregnant and it said Boy.  I took it again on a different site at a Superbowl party and it said Girl… Wah, Wah.  Prediction outcome: Inconclusive

Old Wives Tale #7: Clumsy vs. Graceful

If the pregnant woman is graceful throughout her pregnancy, she’s having a girl. If she becomes clumsy, she’s having a boy.

I wouldn’t go as far to say I am graceful, but I am a little less clumsy than normal.   Prediction outcome: Girl

Old Wives Tale #8: Side You Most Rest On
If a pregnant woman prefers to lay on her left side, she’s having a boy. If she prefers resting on her right side, she’s having a girl.

This pregnancy I prefer my left.  Last time I preferred my right.  Prediction outcome: Boy

Old Wives Tale #9: Morning Sickness
If you had a smooth pregnancy with no morning sickness, it’s a boy. If you were sick or felt really nauseous during your pregnancy, count on a girl.

I had a little more nausea this pregnancy.  I only vomited once, maybe twice. Prediction outcome: Girl

Old Wives Tale #10: Headaches

If you are having headaches, you might be carrying a boy.

Oh yeah, I have headaches!!   Prediction outcome: Boy

Old Wives Tale #11: Urine
What color is your pee? If it is bright yellow, you will have a little boy. If your urine is a dull yellow, plan on a girl.

Well this is a little gross!  But yellow it is.  Prediction outcome: Boy


Girl =5

Boy =4

Inconclusive = 2

Looks like it may be another Girl!  We find out for sure this week, eek!   Have you ever listened to wives tales?  How did the results work for you?

Update:  Its a boy!!!

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Reef Shoes

Being from Southern California we get the luxury of living in sandals and flats almost all year round.  I use to buy a few pairs of cheap flip flops in spring to wear all summer but with a chronic foot injury I can’t do the flimsy sandals with no support or cushion and be able to walk an entire day.  I pretty much lived in tennis shoes for a while because I need support and comfort, and you really get what you pay for with cheap shoes.  I guess the adult in me realized feet are something you need to take care of too and an investment in good shoes is defiantly worth it in the long run.

So I had been hunting for some good sandals to replace my old ones but couldn’t bring myself to buy another pair that will just cause me pain.  And still want them to look good because who wants to wear ugly shoes?!  Recently I was shoe shopping with my little sister-in-law and she showed me Reef sandals; she said she couldn’t wait to start high school so she could wear them to class every day and be comfy.  I was intrigued because they looked like another other pair of flip flops I had seen.  Until I tried some on, boy was I wrong!

I’ve never been big on knowing a lot about shoe brands, I tend to buy what fits my feet and my budget.  But as I’ve gotten older I have started to look into shoes that will last longer than just a few months without causing me pain.  Shopping for Reef, I found flip flop sandals, flats, and tennis shoes I can wear plus some sandals for my husband!

Here are my favorites:

REEF MAYUTA in Charcoal

REEF MAYUTA (in tan) are cute, comfy and supportive, and perfect for a dressier or casual look. These defiantly are my favorite.


REEF LEATHER UPTOWN LUXE (in leopard).  It’s not secret I love leopard print…it takes up half my wardrobe! So it’s no surprise I love these sandals.


SMOOTHY (in black) is a perfect sandal for guys.  The thick strap is durable and makes sure they will stay on, the bottoms are cushioned and give support as well as traction so he won’t slip.

I recommend Reef sandals for anyone who doesn’t want a lousy pair of flip flops.  You can check out all the awesome sandals and shoes they have for the beach or every day wear at

Toddler Life : 1

A new series I will be starting is called Toddler Life!  I will be sharing a little bit about Eleanor and her activities from time to time.  I am not sure how frequent posts about her will be but stay tuned!

Eleanor is a busy little girl.  She’s pretty much on the go non-stop.  Completely opposite of pregnant and tired me!  Ha!  We mostly stick to a routine so she knows what expect from the day.  She loves visitors and trips out and about.  She talks about daddy all day and gets pretty excited when he comes home from work, its pretty cute.  <3

Eleanor in Crib

Lately I have been working on some photo projects and this month assignment is low light.  I decided to capture Eleanor right as she woke up.  This is usually her happiest and most animated time.  She loves to jump in bed and squeals when she sees mommy or daddy.  When she wakes up she likes to hang out in the crib for a few minutes and bounce or run around.  Sometimes she throws all her blankets and animals out.  Other times we play peek-a-boo through the railing.  She doesn’t mind being in the crib, its her little sanctuary.


I love the app Timehop.  Its pretty exciting every morning to check in and see old photos from the years prior.  I usually end up sending them to friends and family hoping they bring joy.  Last week a photo of Eleanor in her carseat popped up so I asked her to smile to do a comparison.  She gave me this adorable face instead.  In the app you can share a single photo or do a then and now.  I sent this out to my hubby who took the original photo and also shared on Instagram.

Eleanor outside

Our neighbors gave us this playhouse when their twin boys outgrew it.  Eleanor loved it immediately.  She walks in and even invites the dog to join her.  She peeks out the windows and plays with the toy kitchen inside.  Last week we went outside to play and Eleanor closed the screen door behind us.  Little did we know it locked and when we tried to get back in we realized we were locked out.  We had to call daddy to come home from work and let us back in.  Lucky he only works about 10 minutes from home.

That is a little of what has been going on in our lives.  Whats been happening in yours?


Spring Dresses

7 Spring Dresses

Spring is here and its time to celebrate by wearing dresses!  Ok, I don’t wear dresses often.  But I love to splurge and get a new one for Easter… which is just around the corner.    Here are my favorite 7 Spring Dresses.

Spring Dresses

  1. Khols / 2. Mod Cloth / 3. Nordstrom / 4. Macys / 5. Nordstrom / 6. J.Crew / 7. Nordstrom

I love the pastels and floral prints of spring.  I also threw in a polka dot that Jackie is sure to love!  Which is your favorite?  Share in the comments below.

Social Media

Hey guess what?  We started an Instagram account!  So here is a little refresher on our social media accounts.


Ok its true, Jackie and I have had our own Instagrams for quite some time (here and here).  But now we have an in-lala-land official instagram.  Be sure to check us out and follow us :)  Jackie will be posting weekly funnies.  We will also be posting photos of our lives and such so you don’t want to miss out!

We also have a Facebook account here incase you haven’t liked us yet.  Our posts are always linked on Facebook and its a very easy way to follow what we are doing.

And… just incase you don’t use either you can follow us on Twitter here!

New Plans

New PlansSince we took an unplanned hiatus over the last few weeks we decided it was time for a change.  I have to admit I was getting burned out on crafting.  There are only so many things you really need in your house.  In addition its a little challenging crafting with a curious toddler in the room, not to mention once I’m done there is limited areas I can put a craft that will guarantee its safety!  So time for a change.

Don’t get me wrong Jackie and I still love to craft… but we plan on gearing our posts more towards life, how we are doing it currently, what we think about it and maybe a few crafts spiced in.  For us, blogging is about making memories and having a hobby we can do together.  We love all of our followers and anyone who reads our posts, but really we do this for ourselves.  We plan to share different parts of ourselves and our lives and we hope you are excited to see where this goes.

I’ll give you a little teaser of whats to come…  I will be sharing about life at home with a growing belly and toddler.  Then eventually two little ones and all that is entailed with them.  Jackie will share about finishing her college career and making big choices on what to pursue after.  Our dating lives with our hubbies, family travels and outings with friends.

We hope you will stick around to see what we come up with!  If you have any ideas of what you think we should talk about feel free to share them. Also, we are now excepting guest posts so feel free to contact if you would like to guest post or have us spotlight your blog or product.


Why We Started Blogging


First of all… Hey there!! It’s been a while since we last posted.  Hope you guys missed us as much as we missed blogging! We have had some major personal stuff going on and let’s be honest,  our laziness has gotten the best of us.  We planned out what to blog this last month but nothing got posted.  Nicole is pregnant (woo hoo!) and was going through the first trimester with a one year old at home (pretty tiring) on top of illnesses that seem to be back to back.  Also Jackie is kicking butt at school trying to get her last semester out of the way before graduation this May.  She buckled down and has really been focusing so she can go out with a bang… Yay, Jackie!

Since we had a huge lapse of activity here we decided it might be time to make some changes.  So we have brainstormed, discussed, planned, and come up with some fun new ideas.  More of that will come in the following weeks but first we wanted to share why we started this whole blog in the first place.  Mostly to show where we have come from and to give you a sneak peak on where we plan to go.

We started In-LaLa-Land back in 2011 after Nicole had gotten married and moved in with her new hubby, leaving Jackie at home missing her big sister.  I (Jackie) was largely inspired by Pintrest and all the wonderful craft, photo, and fashion ideas I had come across as well as the wonderful blogs.  I had toyed with the idea of starting my own blog but knew I would eventually get too lazy and stop doing it if I didn’t have someone to help motivate me. So I turned to my big sister and best friend to join me – a hobby we could do together, be creative, and grow as individuals and as friends.   Crafts have always been a hobby of ours and we love to share our crafts with others and see what others make. Personally, that has always been my favorite part of blogging.  But as we got more and more busy Nicole and I have realized we have much less time and energy to make wonderful crafts to share (and much less space to put them!).  For us, blogging is about making memories and having a hobby together.  We love all of our followers and anyone who reads our posts, but really we do this for ourselves.  It is our own creative outlet that allows us to be free to express ourselves.